On the eve of a journey…

Sunday Blog 239 – 28th June 2026 I’ve more to add to my post-traumatic growth series of blogs – but today just wasn’t the day. I needed to take a breath, bask in the nervous excitement of the-day-before-travel. Tomorrow I fly out to Paris for five weeks of research, writing, working, catching up with friends …

Post-traumatic Growth is a Thing – Part Two

Sunday Blog 238 – 21st June 2026 In the middle of the night, 10th May 2002, I woke up, lay in my bed for a moment or two. Then I heard the soft padding of feet. Perhaps that sound had woken me up. A subtle sound that seemed to come from the kitchen. Could that …

Post-traumatic growth is a Thing – Part One

Sunday Blog 237 – 14 June 2026 I’d been at an art workshop in London, in the very early days after my arrival, in 1990. I was trying on new identities on the other side of the world from my birth family. Anyway, at the end of the course, a few of us decided to …

Hairy, misbehaving women

Sunday Blog 232 – 3 May 2026 A trigger warning applies to this blog as I end it with a disclosure of sexual assault I survived more than two decades ago. Please take care when reading. It’s always illuminating to sup with the youngsters; Millennials, Gen Z’ers. At a recent dinner, the subject of the …